My Husband Watches Porn - Should I Tell Him to Stop?

One of the greatest shocks a woman can have is to find out that her husband or boyfriend watch porn on a regular basis. For some women this seems like a betrayal, not just with one woman but with a multitude of them.

My Husband Watches Porn - Should I Tell Him to Stop?

For some, this spells a definite crisis in the relationship. Fears creep in such as the dread that your partner is no longer attracted to you or that he is seeking gratification elsewhere.

What should your response be if your husband watches porn? Should you demand that he stop? Should you be concerned at all? Let's see what needs to be done...

Kate

First of all, you need to calm down. Just because your husband watches porn does not make him a pervert, a depraved individual, or a sex fiend. Millions upon millions of men (and women too) watch porn on a regular basis. Most lead a perfectly healthy life and relationships. As long as the porn your husband watches is on the "mainstream" side, you shouldn't jump to conclusions as to the nature of your partner.

Second, there's a question of frequency. Someone who watches porn for two-three hours each day may have an addiction that can interefere with their regular life and may need to be treated. If this is just a "recreational" activity, then you don't need to be overly concerned... yet.

Third, you need to take a look at your life and the intimacy in your relationship. With some couples, porn doesn't reduce the frequence of their lovemaking, doesn't eliminate or diminish a man's passion for his wife any more than any other "hobby" does. If that is the case, if you're satisfied with your relationship, what would be the point of getting into an argument with your man about this? Why ruin a good thing?

Fourth, this discovery can actually help you improve your relationship by offering you both the chance of talking more openly about each other's fantasies and desires. You may find a way to enhance your own sex life as a result. Some couples even watch porn together as a way to spice up their lovemaking.

What you should be concerned about is whether your man tries out "extreme" ideas he saw in some movie. You have every right to make it clear to your man that you're not an actress and that you only do things you are comfortable with.

Porn is not bad in and of itself, at least where your relationship is concerned. Before you make a big deal out of it, make sure that it's really causing damage to you and your relationship.

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