My Husband Watches Porn - Should I Tell Him to Stop?

One of the greatest shocks a woman can have is to find out that her husband or boyfriend watch porn on a regular basis. For some women this seems like a betrayal, not just with one woman but with a multitude of them.

My Husband Watches Porn - Should I Tell Him to Stop?

For some, this spells a definite crisis in the relationship. Fears creep in such as the dread that your partner is no longer attracted to you or that he is seeking gratification elsewhere.

What should your response be if your husband watches porn? Should you demand that he stop? Should you be concerned at all? Let's see what needs to be done...

Kate

First of all, you need to calm down. Just because your husband watches porn does not make him a pervert, a depraved individual, or a sex fiend. Millions upon millions of men (and women too) watch porn on a regular basis. Most lead a perfectly healthy life and relationships. As long as the porn your husband watches is on the "mainstream" side, you shouldn't jump to conclusions as to the nature of your partner.

Second, there's a question of frequency. Someone who watches porn for two-three hours each day may have an addiction that can interefere with their regular life and may need to be treated. If this is just a "recreational" activity, then you don't need to be overly concerned... yet.

Third, you need to take a look at your life and the intimacy in your relationship. With some couples, porn doesn't reduce the frequence of their lovemaking, doesn't eliminate or diminish a man's passion for his wife any more than any other "hobby" does. If that is the case, if you're satisfied with your relationship, what would be the point of getting into an argument with your man about this? Why ruin a good thing?

Fourth, this discovery can actually help you improve your relationship by offering you both the chance of talking more openly about each other's fantasies and desires. You may find a way to enhance your own sex life as a result. Some couples even watch porn together as a way to spice up their lovemaking.

What you should be concerned about is whether your man tries out "extreme" ideas he saw in some movie. You have every right to make it clear to your man that you're not an actress and that you only do things you are comfortable with.

Porn is not bad in and of itself, at least where your relationship is concerned. Before you make a big deal out of it, make sure that it's really causing damage to you and your relationship.

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How to Make Your Husband Want You Sexually

Living in a sexless marriage is hard, confusing, and frightening. However, in many cases, there is a way for you to bring the passion back to your marriage and make your husband want you sexually once more.

How to Make Your Husband Want You Sexually

However, before you begin thinking this is all about you, I want you to know two things:

1. This can be something that's physically wrong with your husband. Some illness or medication that he's taking that simply turns off his libido. If that's the case, his doctor could probably help.

Kate

2. If not, this is still not your fault. Millions of couples live in sexless marriages and for a variety of reasons. For every reason you can come up with, you'll be able to find couples who have the same issue but still enjoy having sex with one another. So, don't blame yourself, it's not the right attitude to take.

That being said, there are things you can do to make your husband want you sexually:

1. Personal grooming - I don't mean to get into too personal territory with you, but a lot of women tend to let go of their grooming habits when married. When once you used to wax your legs every 4 weeks, now you do so every 6. Your husband may not say anything about this but he may still be turned off by it.

2. Develop your own interests - Chances are your husband is attracted to you but you need to remind him how special and interesting you are. Take a course, start a new hobby, go out with some friends on a regular basis. He'll see that you have a life that's separated from him and he'll grow more intersted in you once more.

3. Show greater interest in what he does, in his job, business, and hobbies. Often, people get so caught up in the day to day grind that they hardly talk to one another about anything other than the kids, money, and the house and chores. By paying more attention to the person he is right now, he'll feel much closer and more intimate to you.

4. Initiate sex - You don't want to be passive in your relationship. If he doesn't initiate sex, go ahead and do it yourself. This may be just what's needed to get him going once more.

Try the steps above and see how they work. You can get the passion back but it may require some time, effort, and patience.

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